Yes, today was the day that I married my Lucky Star. Chi Tau City is an adult RP city, but that doesn’t mean we’re only about the sex. We’re a community. We’re a family. While people don’t (and shouldn’t) come to the city looking for someone to marry, it does happen. It happened for me with Star, and today we celebrated our wedding. I don’t know how many people were at our wedding, but it was a lot of people. Others wanted to be here with us but were unable to do so. So, for those who were here, and those who weren’t, posted here now is our wedding. Thank you to all, whether you were here or not. We love you all!

Wedding of Star & Trasee | Flickr (From Rhiannon)

Star & Trasee’s Wedding | Flickr (From Grimm)

Meri: A marriage is a great adventure.  It is a journey of discovery of the Self, of the Other, and of the Us.  Like a river, it begins quietly, bubbling up from the ground as if by magic.  The couple comes together like the waters, moving forward, running its course, bounding off the banks it meets, gathering volume, depth, and energy.
Meri: In time, the relationship deepens, widens, and slows, graceful, calm, has found its flow.  There will be eddies, backflows, rapids, breakwaters, even waterfalls, but the marriage, as the river, runs on.
Meri: Love, like water, is immensely powerful, it fosters life, but can also end it.  A marriage is work, the greatest work a person can do.  It is compromise and cooperation, a giving of all one has, and then some, and all the time.
Meri: Marriage is an equal partnership where the strengths of one make up for the weakness of the other.  A meeting of hearts and minds.  It is, in short, the greatest of adventures.
Meri: Who gives this bride away?
Ancilla: i do
Meri: Please come up and do so, Ancilla
Ancilla: I do not make friends easily.  It’s difficult to let people in (well… emotionally anyway).  Trasee found her way into my life and became my friend surprisingly rapidly.  Through conojoined mischef and various shenanigans, we both ended up developing feelings for one another, although neither of us realized it about the other at the time.
Ancilla: An unfortunate conversation on my part led to her confessing her feelings for me, and i realized i reciprocated them… and from there, the rest became epic history.  since then we have been each others inspiration and enabler.
Ancilla: There has always been something i could not give her though, something she deserves.  i have watched her try to find it through various relationships, all of which we’re either disfunctional or toxic.  i’ve seen her bent, and i’ve seen her broken, and it always hurt me.
Ancilla: Then she met Star…
Ancilla: Star gives her the things i can not.  Star is a shining beacon (pun intended) that guides Trasee.  Star “understands” and Star “gives” as much as she takes, if not more.
Ancilla: When Star came to me to ask if she could marry Trasee, i said yes with exuberance, and could barely contain myself until she asked Trasee.
Ancilla Darque (AncillaDarque) looks at Star…
Ancilla: Just remember Star, if you hurt her, i will torture you in ways that will impress even you *winks at Star*
Ancilla: So it is with great pleasure and pride, that i give Trasee to Star today.
Trasee giggles at the comment.
Star: ~tears in her eye’s~ Thakn you Ancilla
Meri: Lend… you lend Trasee to day
Ancilla: share and share alike Meri
Meri: You know I don’t know how to share.
Meri: Do you, Star, take Trasee to be your partner in life, to join in this journey, to be bound in spirit, to honor and keep her in good times and bad?
Star: I do
Meri: Do you, Trasee, take Star to be your partner in life, to join in this journey, to be bound in spirit, to honor and keep her in good times and bad?
Trasee: I do
Meri: We call upon the Spirits of the East, of Earth, and Spring to bless this union.  Earth is the essence of stability and Spring is the season of beginnings.
Meri: Grant this couple the gifts of divination, communication, and teaching.
Meri: We call upon the Spirits of the South, of Fire, and Summer to bless this union.
Meri: Fire is the essence of passion and change and Summer is the season of life.
Meri: Grant this couple the gifts of zeal, compassion, and love.
Meri: We call upon the Spirtis of the West, of Water, and Autumn to bless this union.
Meri: Water is the essence of fertility and Autumn is the season of change.
Meri: Grant this couple the gifts of judgment, stability, and balance.
Meri: We call upon the Spirits of the North, of Air, and Winter to bless this union.
Meri: Air is the essence of intuition and knowledge.
Meri: Grant this couple the gifts of spirituality, learning, and healing.
Meri: A vow is a promise given from the heart and soul that should be unbreakable.
Meri: The couple form this union with vows made before and witnessed by this gathering.
Meri: These vows are as binding upon us to help them uphold and support with our love and friendship as they are upon Star and Trasee.
Meri: Star please speak your vows to Trasee.
Star: ~looks at her Babygirl an clears her throat quietly~
Star: Trasee Darque, here I stand before you.  I love you, Babygirl.
Star: From day one in the hot tub, the communication has been amazing.  From the culmination of insider trading of information to you fronting a drunken sister as a trojan horse.  Our relationship has grown, as we have grown together.  You have held me up as I have you.  Whether in the thrawls of passion or that of a cuddle that takes us away.
Star: You are my confidante, my best friend, my lover, my Babygirl.  You are so much more to me, my lil love.
Star: Good days, Bad days, a day is a day.  It doesn’t decide how I feel about you.  I love you, all of you.
Star: I can’t promise that you will go to sleep happy every night.
Star: I can promise, I will be there in the morning.
Star: I can’t promise I will be sane all the time.
Star: I can promise that I will reach out an let you know when I am not strong.
Trasee smiles, tears in her eyes.
Star: I can’t promise that I will always like what I hear.
Star: I can promise the open, honest and amazing lines of communication we share to discuss an resolve.
Star: An absence doesn’t constitute a separation.  I won’t walk away, I love you, Babygirl.
Star: And my cock is community property, but my heart belongs to You.
Trasee giggles
Star: I love you hun
Meri: Trasee please speak  your vows to Star.
Trasee looks into Mommy’s eyes and smiles.
Trasee: I love you very much.
Trasee: Star. I first heard your name when Ancilla was questioning who you were when you rented your beach house. Then I heard from Meri about a fun time that she had with you at one event. That wasn’t the last time I had heard about you either, as I heard mention of you from several others in the city. I wasn’t in SL as much at that time; RL kept me busy and SL was a place I was actually wanting to avoid. Yet, as I heard more, I wanted to see if I could meet you. I started returning to SL a little bit more until the fateful night that I actually saw you at a Fraternity dance party. Even though I’d been wanting to meet you, there was a fear in meeting you as well. So, it was with the help of my sister, that we actually met for the first time and spent the remainder of the evening talking in your hottub. Little did I know where that would lead. I wasn’t looking for anything at the time except to meet you. I had several failed relationships, Mistresses that didn’t treat me right and other relationships that weren’t the right fit. I figured at the least it would be a new friend in the city.
Trasee: After a time, you went from Miss Star to my Mommy Domme. The thought of being anyone’s “babygirl” was something I didn’t understand until I met you. Now, I am also becoming your wife. A few months ago, I never would have dreamed that I’d be your wife and babygirl. Yet, that is what I am becoming. I can’t express how happy that makes me. As your wife and your babygirl, I vow to be there for you in good times and in bad. I vow to be a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. I vow to be your wife and your babygirl in all times. I vow to love, to cherish, and to honor you in all things. Forever and always, I am yours. Your wife and your babygirl.
Meri: Have you rings to exchange?
Star ~crys quietly, tears run down her cheek~
Trasee: Yes, we do.
Meri: The Universe is a circle.
Meri: Dust collects, binds, flares and becomes stars and plantets.
Meri: Those bodies age, wither, and die, breaking apart to become dust again.
Meri: Everything follows this pattern, including us,
Meri: for are we not made of the same dust that the stars are made of?
Meri: The circle is eternal.  It has no beginning and it never ends.
Meri: It is no coincidence that we bind our love with rings.
Meri: The ring is a constant reminder of the significance of the union of marriage.
Meri: Trasee please place your a ring for Star upon her finger.
Trasee takes the ring and slides it onto Star’s finger.
Meri: Star please place your ring for Trasee upon her finger.
Star Takes the ring and softly holds her babygirls hand as she slips the ring over her finger
Meri: Trasee and Star have stood before us.
Meri: They have agreed to be joined.
Meri: They have been blessed.
Meri: They have made vows before witnesses.
Meri: They have exchanged rings as proof and signs of their troth.
Meri: May they now and forever more live together,  happily ever after.
Trasee smiles brightly, tears in her eyes.
Meri: I give you, Star and Trasee.
Ancilla: yay!!
Ancilla runs up and ties their tails together before anyone can react
Ethan: 😀
Alejandro Murrieta: BRAVA!
Trasee giggles
Trash Neko Sam applauds!
T cheers loudly and claps
Christi Whetmore applauds!
Ethan Mistry: Woo hoo!
Star: Well babygirl, you got my crazy an I got your madness  ~Kisses her Babygirl~
Debbie Smith soft claps…
Alex Hunter applauds
Cʟᴀʀᴀ Cʀᴏꜱꜱ UwU’zzℴ *applause af*
Cassie applauds!
Lily applauds happily!
Ralf Hultcrantz: who hoooo
Trash Neko Sam applauds twice for the union and the shenanigans.
Nesliyah applauds and stops fighting her tears of joy
Ralf Hultcrantz: congrats!
Chloe Nyx: ~applauds~
Trasee Darque kisses her wife deeply
Daelenie McMillan: Yayys!!
Star ~purrs~
Sam: congratulations you both.. may you be happy for all time to come
Mia applauds “YAY, congrats Trasee and Star!!”
Quinn claps “Congratulations!”
Cassie (firecatcassie): Congratulations, Trasee and Star!
Ryla Ravenwulf Nightwolf: YAY congrats you two, if you need wedding couple pictures, i will do them for free
Oded Fahid applauds as tastefully as his dress.
ღ Azeylia Ashborne ღ: Congrats ♥
Tana Rose: Congratulationd Trasee, Star, and Ancilla as well 🙂
Kitty Wants claps softly
Star: Where to babygirl, I am tears an shakes here
Llarik: contratulations
Jill: Congratulations
Lora Swords applauds and wipes off her tears “Congratulations, Star and Trasee!”
Nesliyah: congratulations Trasee and Star
Cʟᴀʀᴀ Cʀᴏꜱꜱ UwU’zzℴ: Congratulations! ¦D
Mia: I’m not crying, you all are crying…
Meri: I think the happy couple gets the first dance.
Trash Neko Sam: Huge congrats.
T smiles, still cheering “Congratulifications you two!”
Now playing: John Legend & Lindsey Stirling – All Of Me
Star: BAbygirl I rtold you I ihad a surprise for you
Star: didn’t I?
Trasee: Yes, you did, Mommy.
Trasee smiles
Star: Well I wrote soething for you
Star: Thru out the generations of adorations.  Love is a comparison between that of an inanimate object an the object of affection.
Star: So join me, and let go.  For I will use colors and roses along with their meanings to illustrate how they combine to show how our love grows everyday
Star: You would agree, that Pink is a favorite color of Ours?  I would, so… Let’s look at Pink and the meaning between the Rose and the color.
Star: The Pink rose, tender and supple.
Star: Lighter pinks tend to represent gentleness and appreciation.  As the shade of pink darkens, it signifies stronger and more personal feelings.
Star: Yet, to get Pink, you require the color Red.  Once again enters the Red rose.  Vibrant and stunning.
Star: It should be no surprise that a red rose represents romantic love and passion.  The more vibrant the shade, the more passionate the feeling.
Star: Now Red alone does not make Pink, we will require the color White.  Add the White Rose.  Alluring and subtle.
Star: The color white almost always represents purity or innocence.  White roses also have ties to young love and eternal loyalty
Trasee smiles, tears in her eyes, as she listens.
Star: That is the botanical symmetry of our love.
Star: Babygirl, we have gone from lightest to the darkest pink and all other shades in between.  I wouldn’t have it any other way or with anyone else.
Star: With the mixture of red an white.  The bright blood red, crimson and flowing velvet tones.  Complimented by equal measurements of white to bond and bind the two.
Star: The two constantly blending, the shades flow and evolve as does my love for you, Babygirl, I Love you.
Star ~kisses her Wife~
Trasee smiles brightly, tears in eyes, returning the kiss as they dance. “I love you so much, Mommy.”
Star: I love you Babygirl
Trasee: I’m sorry I didn’t have something like that ready. You have really brought new life to me. As the song says, all of me loves all of you.
Trasee: I think of you all the time, I’ll always be here, in all times, good and bad. I’m happy to be your wife.
Trasee kisses her wife happily.